My Buddy Gordie- “The Hulkster”

Success is a goal you undeniably want to strive for in life. As with everyone else, you would like a piece of the good life. You want to rise above your limitations and drive yourself to the best you can possibly reach.

In life, there are so many ways to get to your dreams. You may want to consult Feng Shui experts. Use EFT, You may want to consult astrological charts. You may turn to God. You may turn to creative imagery to get what you want. However you would like to build your personal pillar of success, I believe that there are constants and absolutes. A good, solid foundation is a constant in building any sturdy edifice, relationships are no different. So it is essential that there be a strong foundation in the construction of your personal pillar of success.

Integrity, no matter what your religious beliefs are, is the bedrock of all transactions.

Why would you want to deal with things with integrity? Well, forming relationships is a must in your pursuit of success; and of course you would like to take good care of these relationships. Integrity builds trust, which is an essential relationship lubricant. You don’t need studies to confirm that clients would go back to someone with whom they were able to deal with smoothly and who stuck to his end of the deal. The currency of life is “Quid Pro Quo”, or “give me as I would give you”. So many business relationships have been severed because a party did not meet the end of the deal, or cheated the other of what was his due. Relationships are the foundation of your success, and Integrity is the foundation of Relationships. Without Integrity, no relationships, and no success.

It helps when you would go through life with a clear conscience and the knowledge that you have given your best to your client, or with whomever you have an interpersonal relationship. The lack of moral and emotional baggage frees you to be more productive, thus allowing you to build your pillar of success faster.

To cultivate integrity, start with the little things. Tell the truth in the most trivial of situations. Catch yourself when you are about to tell a white lie. Be transparent in all your transactions. Give change to your customers to the very last cent. As an adage says, “If you are faithful in little, you will be faithful in much.” Such is true in cultivating everything, even integrity.

Quid Pro Quo. That is the currency of human relationships. Take care of your relationships. Fortify them with Integrity.

EFT can help you with past stories that are preventing you from acting with integrity, by cutting the emotional ties you may have to certain actions or outcomes. When you’ve gotten rid of your excess baggage, then comes the task of attracting the right relationships, and nurturing those relationships.

The first step in atttracting the important relationships you need as a foundation is to believe that you can, and develop a magnetism for the kinds of relationships you seek. This is where subliminal affirmations can do a ton of good. Imagine the difference between having an internal story of “I don’t deserve success, because my uncle so and so said I would never amount to anything” and the internal story of “I am powerful, confident, deserving and charmed. All my desires are being fulfilled right now” Do you think someone would act differently? Would others see them differently? Of course they would. They would become a magnet for positive, productive relationships.

But, without integrity, the relationships would not last. So don’t forget the all important all.

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