Money Matters in Relationships – Roots or Fruits
Statististics show that the number one cause of all relationship breakups is money and cash. The biggest reason behind the fights that is not the money itself, but the mismatch of approaches. Ultimately it does not matter how much money you have or do not have. If your blueprints , philosophy and plans do not mesh , you will have a conflict of views and a difficult task ahead of yourself.
The key is comprehend and understand that you are dealing with blueprints not money itself. Once you recognize that a person’s money blueprint then you deal with a partner in a way that works for both of you. You can begin by becoming aware that your partner’s money views and background – the tapes in their mind are not the same and indeed may well be different than yours. Instead of getting upset , choose understanding. Do your best to find out what is important to your partner in the area and arena of money . Identify motivations and and fears. In this way you will be dealing with the root causes instead of the fruits . You will have much better percentage chance of things working out.
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